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Borderline Personality Disorder

Diagnostic Criteria 301.83 (F60.3)

A pervasive pattern of instability of interpersonal relationships, self-image, and affects,

and marked impulsivity, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts,

as indicated by five (or more) of the following:

1. Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. (Note: Do not include suicidal

or self-mutilating behavior covered in Criterion 5.)

2. A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating

between extremes of idealization and devaluation.

3. Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.

4. Impulsivity in at least two areas that are potentially self-damaging (e.g., spending, sex,

substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating). (Note: Do not include suicidal or selfmutilating

behavior covered in Criterion 5.)

5. Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures, or threats, or self-mutilating behavior.

6. Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria,

irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days).

7. Chronic feelings of emptiness.

8. Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of

temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).

9. Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.

Diagnostic Features

The essential feature of borderline personality disorder is a pervasive pattern of instability

of interpersonal relationships, self-image, and affects, and marked impulsivity that begins

by early adulthood and is present in a variety of contexts.

Individuals with borderline personality disorder make frantic efforts to avoid real or

imagined abandonment (Criterion 1). The perception of impending separation or rejection,

or the loss of external structure, can lead to profound changes in self-image, affect, cognition,

and behavior. These individuals are very sensitive to environmental circumstances. They experience

intense abandonment fears and inappropriate anger even when faced with a realistic

time-limited separation or when there are unavoidable changes in plans (e.g., sudden

despair in reaction to a clinician’s announcing the end of the hour; panic or fury when someone

important to them is just a few minutes late or must cancel an appointment). They may

believe that this “abandonment” implies they are “bad.” These abandonment fears are related

to an intolerance of being alone and a need to have other people with them. Their frantic

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efforts to avoid abandonment may include impulsive actions such as self-mutilating or suicidal

behaviors, which are described separately in Criterion 5.

Individuals with borderline personality disorder have a pattern of unstable and intense

relationships (Criterion 2). They may idealize potential caregivers or lovers at the first or

second meeting, demand to spend a lot of time together, and share the most intimate details

early in a relationship. However, they may switch quickly from idealizing other people to

devaluing them, feeling that the other person does not care enough, does not give enough,

or is not “there” enough. These individuals can empathize with and nurture other people,

but only with the expectation that the other person will “be there” in return to meet their

own needs on demand. These individuals are prone to sudden and dramatic shifts in their

view of others, who may alternatively be seen as beneficent supports or as cruelly punitive.

Such shifts often reflect disillusionment with a caregiver whose nurturing qualities had

been idealized or whose rejection or abandonment is expected.

There may be an identity disturbance characterized by markedly and persistently unstable

self-image or sense of self (Criterion 3). There are sudden and dramatic shifts in selfimage,

characterized by shifting goals, values, and vocational aspirations. There may be

sudden changes in opinions and plans about career, sexual identity, values, and types of

friends. These individuals may suddenly change from the role of a needy supplicant for

help to that of a righteous avenger of past mistreatment. Although they usually have a selfimage

that is based on being bad or evil, individuals with this disorder may at times have

feelings that they do not exist at all. Such experiences usually occur in situations in which

the individual feels a lack of a meaningful relationship, nurturing, and support. These individuals

may show worse performance in unstructured work or school situations.

Individuals with borderline personality disorder display impulsivity in at least two areas

that are potentially self-damaging (Criterion 4). They may gamble, spend money irresponsibly,

binge eat, abuse substances, engage in unsafe sex, or drive recklessly. Individuals

with this disorder display recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures, or threats, or self-mutilating

behavior (Criterion 5). Completed suicide occurs in 8%–10% of such individuals, and

self-mutilative acts (e.g., cutting or burning) and suicide threats and attempts are very

common. Recurrent suicidality is often the reason that these individuals present for help.

These self-destructive acts are usually precipitated by threats of separation or rejection or

by expectations that the individual assumes increased responsibility. Self-mutilation may

occur during dissociative experiences and often brings relief by reaffirming the ability to

feel or by expiating the individual’s sense of being evil.

Individuals with borderline personality disorder may display affective instability that

is due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety

usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days) (Criterion 6). The

basic dysphoric mood of those with borderline personality disorder is often disrupted by

periods of anger, panic, or despair and is rarely relieved by periods of well-being or satisfaction.

These episodes may reflect the individual’s extreme reactivity to interpersonal

stresses. Individuals with borderline personality disorder may be troubled by chronic feelings

of emptiness (Criterion 7). Easily bored, they may constantly seek something to do.

Individuals with this disorder frequently express inappropriate, intense anger or have difficulty

controlling their anger (Criterion 8). They may display extreme sarcasm, enduring

bitterness, or verbal outbursts. The anger is often elicited when a caregiver or lover is seen

as neglectful, withholding, uncaring, or abandoning. Such expressions of anger are often

followed by shame and guilt and contribute to the feeling they have of being evil. During

periods of extreme stress, transient paranoid ideation or dissociative symptoms (e.g., depersonalization)

may occur (Criterion 9), but these are generally of insufficient severity or

duration to warrant an additional diagnosis. These episodes occur most frequently in response

to a real or imagined abandonment. Symptoms tend to be transient, lasting minutes

or hours. The real or perceived return of the caregiver’s nurturance may result in a

remission of symptoms.

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Associated Features Supporting Diagnosis

Individuals with borderline personality disorder may have a pattern of undermining

themselves at the moment a goal is about to be realized (e.g., dropping out of school just

before graduation; regressing severely after a discussion of how well therapy is going; destroying

a good relationship just when it is clear that the relationship could last). Some individuals

develop psychotic-like symptoms (e.g., hallucinations, body-image distortions,

ideas of reference, hypnagogic phenomena) during times of stress. Individuals with this

disorder may feel more secure with transitional objects (i.e., a pet or inanimate possession)

than in interpersonal relationships. Premature death from suicide may occur in individuals

with this disorder, especially in those with co-occurring depressive disorders or substance

use disorders. Physical handicaps may result from self-inflicted abuse behaviors or

failed suicide attempts. Recurrent job losses, interrupted education, and separation or divorce

are common. Physical and sexual abuse, neglect, hostile conflict, and early parental

loss are more common in the childhood histories of those with borderline personality disorder.

Common co-occurring disorders include depressive and bipolar disorders, substance

use disorders, eating disorders (notably bulimia nervosa), posttraumatic stress

disorder, and attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder. Borderline personality disorder

also frequently co-occurs with the other personality disorders.


The median population prevalence of borderline personality disorder is estimated to be

1.6% but may be as high as 5.9%. The prevalence of borderline personality disorder is

about 6% in primary care settings, about 10% among individuals seen in outpatient mental

health clinics, and about 20% among psychiatric inpatients. The prevalence of borderline

personality disorder may decrease in older age groups.

Development and Course

There is considerable variability in the course of borderline personality disorder. The most

common pattern is one of chronic instability in early adulthood, with episodes of serious

affective and impulsive dyscontrol and high levels of use of health and mental health resources.

The impairment from the disorder and the risk of suicide are greatest in the

young-adult years and gradually wane with advancing age. Although the tendency toward

intense emotions, impulsivity, and intensity in relationships is often lifelong, individuals

who engage in therapeutic intervention often show improvement beginning

sometime during the first year. During their 30s and 40s, the majority of individuals with

this disorder attain greater stability in their relationships and vocational functioning. Follow-

up studies of individuals identified through outpatient mental health clinics indicate

that after about 10 years, as many as half of the individuals no longer have a pattern of behavior

that meets full criteria for borderline personality disorder.

Risk and Prognostic Factors

Genetic and physiological. Borderline personality disorder is about five times more

common among first-degree biological relatives of those with the disorder than in the general

population. There is also an increased familial risk for substance use disorders, antisocial

personality disorder, and depressive or bipolar disorders.

Culture-Related Diagnostic Issues

The pattern of behavior seen in borderline personality disorder has been identified in many

settings around the world. Adolescents and young adults with identity problems (especially

when accompanied by substance use) may transiently display behaviors that misleadingly

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give the impression of borderline personality disorder. Such situations are characterized by

emotional instability, “existential” dilemmas, uncertainty, anxiety-provoking choices, conflicts

about sexual orientation, and competing social pressures to decide on careers.

Gender-Related Diagnostic Issues

Borderline personality disorder is diagnosed predominantly (about 75%) in females.

Differential Diagnosis

Depressive and bipolar disorders. Borderline personality disorder often co-occurs with

depressive or bipolar disorders, and when criteria for both are met, both may be diagnosed.

Because the cross-sectional presentation of borderline personality disorder can be mimicked

by an episode of depressive or bipolar disorder, the clinician should avoid giving an additional

diagnosis of borderline personality disorder based only on cross-sectional presentation

without having documented that the pattern of behavior had an early onset and a longstanding


Other personality disorders. Other personality disorders may be confused with borderline

personality disorder because they have certain features in common. It is therefore important

to distinguish among these disorders based on differences in their characteristic

features. However, if an individual has personality features that meet criteria for one or

more personality disorders in addition to borderline personality disorder, all can be diagnosed.

Although histrionic personality disorder can also be characterized by attention seeking,

manipulative behavior, and rapidly shifting emotions, borderline personality disorder

is distinguished by self-destructiveness, angry disruptions in close relationships, and

chronic feelings of deep emptiness and loneliness. Paranoid ideas or illusions may be present

in both borderline personality disorder and schizotypal personality disorder, but these

symptoms are more transient, interpersonally reactive, and responsive to external structuring

in borderline personality disorder. Although paranoid personality disorder and narcissistic

personality disorder may also be characterized by an angry reaction to minor stimuli,

the relative stability of self-image, as well as the relative lack of self-destructiveness, impulsivity,

and abandonment concerns, distinguishes these disorders from borderline personality

disorder. Although antisocial personality disorder and borderline personality disorder

are both characterized by manipulative behavior, individuals with antisocial personality

disorder are manipulative to gain profit, power, or some other material gratification,

whereas the goal in borderline personality disorder is directed more toward gaining the concern

of caretakers. Both dependent personality disorder and borderline personality disorder

are characterized by fear of abandonment; however, the individual with borderline personality

disorder reacts to abandonment with feelings of emotional emptiness, rage, and demands,

whereas the individual with dependent personality disorder reacts with increasing

appeasement and submissiveness and urgently seeks a replacement relationship to provide

caregiving and support. Borderline personality disorder can further be distinguished from

dependent personality disorder by the typical pattern of unstable and intense relationships.

Personality change due to another medical condition. Borderline personality disorder

must be distinguished from personality change due to another medical condition, in

which the traits that emerge are attributable to the effects of another medical condition on

the central nervous system.

Substance use disorders. Borderline personality disorder must also be distinguished

from symptoms that may develop in association with persistent substance use.

Identity problems. Borderline personality disorder should be distinguished from an

identity problem, which is reserved for identity concerns related to a developmental phase

(e.g., adolescence) and does not qualify as a mental disorder.